For Parents

In Ontario, there is a formal legislation on bullying and cyberbullying, Bill 13 Accepting Schools Act, 2012: An Act to amend the Education Act with respect to bullying and other matters. The bill states the rights and responsibilities of teachers, schools, school boards, other school board employees, and ministries when preventing or dealing with bullying and cyberbullying instances. The law pertains to all incidents of bullying and cyberbullying that affect the school’s learning climate, whether on or off school property, face-to-face or electronic.

For more details on cyberbullying legislation, including federal legislation, please visit: Legal Consequences of Cyberbullying 

Legal Requirements for Private Schools in Ontario

Under The Education Act (Ontario), private schools in Ontario are considered distinct from other schools and operate as businesses or non-profit organizations independently of the Ministry of Education. There is no specific legislation regarding bullying for private schools. However, Bill 13 requires compliance by other persons or entities that use publicly funded school facilities (through rental or other agreements). This means that if a private school competes in athletics or other competitions that take place in publicly funded school facilities, or accesses school facilities such as classrooms, they are required to comply with Bill 13 in their operations.

What Legally Constitutes Bullying and Cyberbullying in Schools?

Bullying is considered to have occurred in a school if it happens: on a school site or public property within 50 metres of a school site; during an activity, function or program that is conducted for school purposes, regardless of whether it takes place at a school site; or through the use of technology or an electronic device provided to students by the school.

Bullying also occurs at a school if it happens through the use of technology or a device that is not provided to students by the school but has the effect of creating a hostile environment for a student at school, infringes on the legal rights of a student at school, or disrupts the education process or operation of a school. This expanded definition of bullying means that even if cyber-bullying occurs outside of school hours or away from school property educators still have an obligation to address incidents of bullying that affect a student’s learning environment.  

If your child confides that he or she has been bullied or cyberbullied at school, or if you hear about it from school personnel or someone else, your rights as a parent under the current legislation are:

At the Classroom/School Level:

• You have the right to ensure the school principal investigates reported incidents of bullying and cyberbullying activities.
• You have the right to be notified of the results of an investigation, including:

1. the nature of the bullying activity – although personal information about the student who bullied may not be disclosed;
2. the nature of the harm to the student;
3. the steps being taken to protect the student’s safety, including the nature of any disciplinary measures in response to the bullying incident; and
4. the supports that will be provided for the student who engaged in bullying activity.

• You have the right to meet with the school principal to have a discussion about the supports that will be provided for your child to ensure that he or she feels safe at school.

At the Ministry of Education Level:

• You have the right to expect the Ministry to make policies and guidelines regarding:

1. the discipline of students engaging in bullying behaviours, including cyberbullying;
2. the form, content, and timing of reports on bullying incidents;
3. the provision of a framework teachers and school boards can use to identify inappropriate student behaviours that require disciplinary consequences; and
4. the provision of a framework teachers and school boards can use to help students develop healthy relationships and make good choices so they can continue their learning and achieve success.

• You have the right to expect the Ministry to establish clear policies on training all teachers and school staff to:

1. support students who have been bullied or cyberbullied, have witnessed bullying or cyberbullying, or have engaged in bullying or cyberbullying; and
2. increase their ability to respond to inappropriate student behaviours in schools.

• You have the right to expect the Ministry establish policies and procedures that allow parents and guardians to report incidents of bullying.
• You have the right to expect the Ministry to establish policies and procedures that ensure parents’ and guardians’ concerns about their children and bullying incidents have been followed up in an appropriate and a timely manner.
• You have the right to expect the Ministry to establish policies and procedures that allow for resources to support students who engage in and/or are impacted by inappropriate bullying or cyberbullying behaviours.

Students who are being bullied often do not want their parents/guardians to report it to the school out of fear or shame, but teachers and administration need to know about the bullying in order to stop it. Work with your child to determine which adults he or she trusts and feels most comfortable with, so that these adults can be involved in the solution.

Remember: approach the school in a calm, supportive manner despite the painful feelings of anger and worry you may feel. It is your job to protect your child, but it is the school’s role to maintain a safe learning environment for all students. It is the school’s responsibility to determine appropriate responses and consequences for the student who bullied and to maintain students’ privacy. Stay focused on solving the problem – preventing further incidents and enabling your child to feel safe and supported.

1. Give yourself time to process your emotions. Learning that your child was bullied or cyberbullied – or bullied or cyberbullied someone else – can be very painful. Listen carefully to the information and if necessary, say you need some time to come to terms with the information before moving forward.
2. Respond caringly to your child. Take reports of bullying seriously. Always recognize your child’s courage in reporting or talking about the bullying. Explain to it is your responsibility to help solve the problem and stop the bullying, and this includes reporting the bullying to the school and working cooperatively with the school.  Reassure the student who was bullied that he or she has the right to be safe, to be protected by adults at school, and to be treated with respect by everyone. Help the student who bullied understand these rights. Emphasize his or her responsibility to treat others with respect.
3. Visit www.prevnet.ca to gather more information about bullying.
4. Before meeting with school personnel to create a safety plan for your child, or a positive response plan if your child has bullied, set short and long-term goals. It is important to identify what you are trying to accomplish and to know what to expect from the school based on its rights and responsibilities under the legislation.
5. Follow up and monitor how the plan is working. Check in regularly with your child and with the school to ensure that the problem is being addressed and that there have not been any more incidents. Initially check in daily, and then gradually reduce the check-ins to every few days, every week, etc. Often it is necessary to monitor for several months.
6. From the first time you become aware of the situation, keep an ongoing record of what happened, when it happened, what was done, and whether the plan of action was effective in stopping the bullying.

Remember, you are a role model for your children. Children watch what their parents do very closely, and are influenced by your actions as well as your words. If your children see you communicating respectfully and remaining constructive in the face of disagreements with others, they are more likely to behave the same way.